Crushes are a common experience for kids
these days. The average age cupid’s arrow is hitting
is lot sooner than parents may think – or be prepared
for. These feelings are not only normal but is an
important developmental milestone for children. Yes, I
can attest to that… since Tristan had his first crush
way before he was even three years old!
Puppy love can start even in preschool with a playmate
attraction but it is more typical around five to eight
during those early school years. Though such
‘attractions’ are generally short-lived –
sometimes lasting no more than even a day – the child
does care about the pal but usually bounces back quickly
and moves on.
Preschoolers are generally interested in everything
about their world, including sexuality. They are highly
affectionate and enjoy hugging other children and
adults. They begin to be more social and may imitate
adult social behaviours, such as holding hands and
kissing. So, if your junior exhibits these
characteristics, do not be overtly affected; they’ll
soon outgrow it.
Valentine’s Day gives us a chance to not only to
relight the spark we have with our special someone, but
also to help it burn brightly for another year. Even on
a tight budget, a memorable night of romance and fantasy
can be yours by using your imagination and remembering
this: you can be anywhere your heart desires with the
right music, the right lighting and the right wine.
On that note, we at Motherhood magazine would like to
wish one and all a sweet Valentine’s Day and a Happy
Chinese New Year!
Shenielle Aloysis
Editor
Motherhood
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